how a person on first meeting is merely ordinary in looks, but after getting to know zir, zir becomes attractive One of my friends is definitely in this category. My friend J started dating this guy R around the same time I started dating M4. The first time I met R we were talking about strip clubs and he came off sort of frat boyish. But over time I have realized that the initial impression was completely incorrect. He's a comic book geek, who likes old movies. He was unemployed for next to forver and used that time doing volunteer work and babysitting his nieces. Turns out that he is a completely fascinating, wonderful, warm human being and I missed that completely from the beginning.
a friend who vanishes from your life as soon as zir is in a new relationship, to return only after the breakup I tend to call them not a friend.
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Date: 2005-04-29 07:45 am (UTC)One of my friends is definitely in this category. My friend J started dating this guy R around the same time I started dating M4. The first time I met R we were talking about strip clubs and he came off sort of frat boyish. But over time I have realized that the initial impression was completely incorrect. He's a comic book geek, who likes old movies. He was unemployed for next to forver and used that time doing volunteer work and babysitting his nieces. Turns out that he is a completely fascinating, wonderful, warm human being and I missed that completely from the beginning.
a friend who vanishes from your life as soon as zir is in a new relationship, to return only after the breakup
I tend to call them not a friend.