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Monday was Yom Kippur. Tomorrow night starts Sukkot [0]. I suppose I shouldn't be surprised that ideas of doing mostly vacationy, excursion-like things have given way to more tasks, errands, and chores, though with a much healthier dose of socializing than I'd manage during a regular work week :-).

I just put up the s'chach [1] for my sukkah [2], so it is as done as it was last year, with only one bit of splinter. I would like to put up a sun block, and perhaps make some decorations (drawing on fabric), but that's all gravy, though much-wanted gravy. Oh, and rearrange the plants and such on the porch, so I can maximize the chairs out there.

Yesterday I bought my lulav [3] and etrog [4]. I bought them at the only place I know to buy one in the state, at the Israel Bookstore. The sets of four species are priced depending on which etrog you buy, and the rest is thrown in, as it were. Being frugal, I tend to look at the cheapest ones, which this year were $40. As usual, I was the only woman there, which doesn't bother me, per se, but I always wonder where the other women buying their lulav and etrog are (I suspect they get them through their shuls, or their husbands get them, or something.). After I'd chosen a pretty etrog without blemishes and a nice pitom [5], I found myrtle that had the leaves sprouting in threes from the main stem, and a straight palm with the tip intact. For some weird reason, there are no particular things to look for in willow branches.

The next major holiday preparation is the food, for which I have to do some shopping. Still, that's much more manageable, being something I do a lot more frequently. I had a request for fish, and so I decided to make dairy food this weekend. Still, since we're likely eating outside, a nice thick pea soup to start, so it won't matter as much if the main dish is cold. Ah, logistics...

[0] A week-long festival commemorating both traveling through the desert after the exodus from Egypt, and the harvest. (The major Jewish holidays all have a dual aspect, of something to do with the exodus, and something to do with the agricultural cycle.)
[1] Er, roof-type material, which by definition does none of the things you usually want a roof to do. It ahs to allow viewing of the stars, though more than 50% coverage. I use bits of wood.
[2] A booth built to live in for the duration of the holiday. Live in = eating in (unless raining (Yes, there are descriptions of what constitutes raining enough to eat inside.), and in some climates, sleeping in.
[3] A bundle of a palm branch, and some willow and myrtle branches, tied together with bits of palm.
[4] A bumpy yellow citrus fruit that smells wonderful. Inside, it is mostly pith and seeds, but some people make marmalade after the holiday anyway.).
[5] A boopkie sticking out of the blossom end, without which the fruit is useless for ritual purposes. This year there were some that looked odd, and I didn't care for them.)

Date: 2003-10-09 07:41 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pinkfish.livejournal.com
[6] What is a boopkie?

Date: 2003-10-09 07:43 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ichur72.livejournal.com
Just a note about the pitom (a k a the boopkie) -- I learned that if the fruit grows naturally without a pitom, it's fine to use. But if it has one that breaks off, it's no longer usable.

Date: 2003-10-09 07:57 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] magid.livejournal.com
I thought that that didn't happen much, so didn't mention it, but apparently it does, enough for the place offering them online to have that as an option (see link in comment above). (Maybe all the women I don't see getting lulav and etrog are getting them online!)

boopkies

Date: 2003-10-09 07:57 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] magid.livejournal.com
You know, thingies, boopkies :-).

I found a not-so-large photo, though it's at a commecial site (they use a different pronunciation, so spell it as 'esrog' and 'esrogim'). They list etrogim without a pitom; apparently there are ones that grow that way, so they're kosher, but if an etrog had one and it gets knocked off, that's a problem. I suppose it would make sense for people to get ones without, but everyone I know gets it with; tradition...

Where were the women?

Date: 2003-10-09 08:13 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gnomi.livejournal.com
Huh - when MAB and I went last night (~6:30), there were a couple of women buying lulavim/etrogim. I think part of it is that many of the women who buy their own arba minim are also women who work outside the home, and thus their shopping time is skewed to the 6-8 PM range.

Also, in general, tonight will be the crazy night at the Book Shop; the crowd last night was much smaller than I was expecting, and the folk behind the counter confirmed that tonight would be more busy (lots of people buying their lulavim/etrogim at the latest possible moment for them, so that they're as fresh as possible, I guess).

Date: 2003-10-09 08:17 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] teddywolf.livejournal.com
Happy Birthday (ugh)
Happy Birthday (ugh)
If you're feeling very bored
Watch your brother getting gored
Happy Birthday (ugh)
Happy Birthday

:-)

Re: Where were the women?

Date: 2003-10-09 08:22 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] magid.livejournal.com
Other years I've gone later in the evening than this year, and sometimes there's a woman or two, but it still feels overwhelmingly male.

And yeah, I assume tonight will be a mob scene. I like having fresh arba minim (especially when they're not going to be used on the first day), but I'm not nuts :-).Well, not in that way, anyway.

Date: 2003-10-09 08:23 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] magid.livejournal.com
Thank you.

Er, gored?
You took up bull-fighting without telling me?

Date: 2003-10-09 09:26 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dancingdeer.livejournal.com
Happy birthday!
I'll let you know after the weekend (I'll be out of town) if I'll have a chance to come check out (and eat in) your sukkah. It sounds nice, and I'm glad you got it finished (minus decorations).

Date: 2003-10-09 09:31 am (UTC)
ext_2233: Writing MamaDeb (mogendavid)
From: [identity profile] mamadeb.livejournal.com
[livejournal.com profile] jonbaker and I are about to purchase our arba minim. Until we moved to Flatbush, Jonathan would just get the two sets and bring one home for me. Since we moved here, I get to pick out my own etrog as well.

There was some discussion about getting me a set at all, because the first day falls on Shabbat, so I'd only be using it once. But. I do bench lulav every morning during Sukkot, even if I'm remiss in saying shacharit. Therefore, it's worthwhile.

And other women in my shul do have their own, plus we provide extra sets.

Date: 2003-10-09 09:45 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] magid.livejournal.com
Since I left the frame up during the year, it's less impressive for me to have the sukkah up. Still, I'm glad that part is done.

Thanks for the birthday wishes :-)

Date: 2003-10-09 09:51 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] magid.livejournal.com
I always like picking out my own etrog, finding the one that was prettiest, and fit in my hand perfectly, all that.

I debated not getting a set this year, and borrowing someone else's, but it just feels strange, after having gotten one for so many years. Last year having my own lead to me feeling pushed into doing hoshanot on the women's side, which was uncomfortable for me. There hadn't been hoshanot on the women's side ever before, and so I hadn't thought about whether it's something I want to do or not, nor researched any opinions about it.
(Er, and I wasn't clear whether the gabbaim had checked with the rabbi before chag; there are times when having a Hillel minyan for home base is not quite ideal.)

Date: 2003-10-09 10:04 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ichur72.livejournal.com
I got mine on line ... just easier that way, IMO. Did the same thing last year as well.

Oh, and happy b'day!

Date: 2003-10-09 10:10 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] magid.livejournal.com
I'd never thought to buy online. Are you happy with what you got?
(I tend not to buy much online at all.)

And thank you :-).

Date: 2003-10-09 01:48 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ichur72.livejournal.com
The one I got this year seems nice enough. (I got the $36 + S&H cheapie set.) I was a little let down last year -- I ordered an esrog with a pitom and got one without. Needless to say, I didn't order from the same company again.

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